Sherman and Semise got married in 2012 after both had been divorced from long-term marriages for seven years and ten years, respectively. They knew they were God-sent to each other and within less than a year after meeting online, they married. This new chapter of their lives was destined for great things; however, three and a half years later, they separated, and a year after that, they got a divorce. But God was not done with them yet. They both loved each other but didn’t know how to relate to each other successfully. Their past experiences created many obstacles they could not overcome without help.
The time apart from each other was critical as this was the time God began to work on them individually and gave them time to heal from the traumas of the failed relationship. He began to show Sherman that he needed to study to understand his wife and Semise spent much time in prayer that God would soften Sherman’s heart towards her. To consider reconciliation, after being divorced for three years, they finally both consented to get professional counseling. Getting wise counsel was the game changer! It started learning about healthy relationships and molding them into the husband and wife God desired them to be. During the Covid pandemic, they were remarried.
Out of all this, was birthed the desire to help other couples by starting Marriage Restoration Ministry, Inc. coaching business. Now, Sherman and Semise passionately help other married couples, even those who feel and think they are at the point of no return, to restore, strengthen, and fortify their relationships with God and each other. In a day and time when many think a healthy, happy marriage is impossible, they have taken charge of teaching couples Biblical principles, some of which are research proven to improve their relationships.
About Sherman & Semise Daley
Q: Please tell us a little bit about your family.
Sherman & Semise has a blended family of four boys, one girl, and seven grandchildren, with one on the way. Our children are all growing and living in separate states except for their daughter in San Diego. They are also blessed to be primary caregivers of Sherman’s Ninety-seven-year-old mother.
Q: Please tell us about your current, past, or future career. What do you love most about what you do?
Sherman’s background is in Information Technology, managing computer systems, database management, and digital marketing. Semise is a Nationally Certified Family Nurse Practitioner (FMP), an adjunct Professor at Azusa University School of Nursing MP program, and a full-time Ph.D. in Nursing student. Currently, as Internationally Certified Relationship coaches, they work as a team to provide holistic coaching tailored specifically for each couple. As coaches, their greatest joy comes from making a difference in helping couples transform and restore their relationships.
Q: What advice would you give to people?
Most couples end in divorce because they have encountered a situation they are both unable to solve. As we learn, about 37% of marriages end in divorce without ever seeking help. Our advice is for couples to seek help early when problems start to arise because, with intervention and work, the relationship of their dreams is still possible.
Q: Where do you see yourself in 5 to 10 years?
Most couples divorce because they have encountered a situation they cannot solve. As we learn, about 37% of marriages end in divorce without ever seeking help. We advise couples to seek help early when problems arise because, with intervention and work, the relationship of their dreams is still possible.
Sherman & Semise Daley & Our Community
Q: What are a few of your favorite restaurants in our community?
These are all different communities in San Diego Caribbean Taste – Imperial Ave. (En Canto), Ackee Tree – El Cajon Blvd. (College area), Island Spice – University Ave (College area), Rock Steady – Market St (San Diego), Tamarind Thai – University Ave (La Mesa), Marecharious – 2nd Ave (El Cajon), Sipz – Balboa Ave (Clairemont), PFChang – Mission Valley Mall (Mission Valley), Chart House – Pacific Coast Highway 101 (Cardiff)
Q: How long have you lived or worked in our community?
Sherman has lived in San Diego since 1980 and Semise since 2012
Q: Who is the most interesting person you’ve met here in our community?
Sherman – Some of our community pastors Semise – Ms. Lottie Harris, who is the Founder and President Emeritus of the San Diego Black Nurses Association
Q: What current or former local business makes you the most nostalgic about our community?
Sherman – Unisys Corporation, where I worked for many years. Semise – Linda Vista Health Care was her first primary care provider position in San Diego as an FMP.
Q: What is your favorite thing or something unique about our community?
They love the weather, the beaches, and all the different entertainment activities we can afford ourselves in the San Diego area. After all, it is America Finest City ????
Q: If you could choose anyone alive today and not a relative, with whom would you love to have lunch? Why? And where locally would you meet for this lunch?
Sherman – Myron Golden and I would take him to Rock Stead Restaurant in San Diego. Semise – Our senior pastor Miles McPherson Lunch I would choose to have lunch with our Pastor Miles McPherson and his wife Debbie of Rock Church San Diego at Chart House on the ocean.
For Fun
Q: What is one of your favorite movies? TV shows?
Both Semise and Sherman are Sci-fi Buffs. We love watching sci-fi together. Star Trek, Star Wars
Q: (Even for friends or family), what is something interesting that most people don’t know about you?
Sherman – I almost went pro playing Soccer. Semise – most people don’t know she was ordained as a minister of the gospel.
Q: What would you rate a 10 out of 10?
Horseback riding on the beach
Q: Who inspires you to be better?
Besides the Holy Spirit, they feel like they inspire each other to improve.
Q: What community organizations and/or local nonprofits do you admire/support?
Rock Church City Heights, Diverse Research Now, San Diego Black Nurses Association
Q: What is the best advice you’ve ever received?
Sherman – Love God first and my neighbor as themselves, Semise – On our wedding day, my mother-in-law told me, “don’t ever go to bed angry”
Q: What Neighborhood do you live in?
El Cajon
What I love about my Neighborhood:
We have friendly and caring neighbors.
Please describe your ideal San Diego weekend:
Head to the beach, where we spend all day relaxing in the sunshine. That night we go out to a nice dinner downtown. The next day, we go to church and, after church, fellowship with friends at the bay. Top of the evening with a relaxing time at home.
Q: Finally, what three words or phrases come to mind when you think of the word HOME?
Sherman – Relaxation, Peace, Rest. Semise – Peace, Sanctuary, Family.
