Born and raised in San Diego, California, I am well-established here. You won’t find an agent who knows their way around the neighborhoods like me. I pride myself on being honest with my clients about the pros and cons of each area, both from an investment standpoint and in terms of quality of life. I consider myself a skilled negotiator and always go above and beyond for my clients. I’m not your typical 9-5 agent who only works weekdays—feel free to reach out anytime! Whether you’re searching for your first home or looking to invest in property, I’m your go-to agent. Additionally, I’m part of a team comprising some of the top 1% of agents in San Diego County. If I don’t have the answers, rest assured I can find them for you.
About John Selby
Q: Please tell us a little bit about your family.
Ah, family is everything to me. I’m so grateful to call San Diego home, where the sun kisses the ocean every day. My heart belongs to my wonderful wife, Nina, and our two precious little ones. We’ve got quite a lively household with our youngest just hitting the eight-month mark. Life’s an adventure with them around, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Q: Please tell us about your current, past, or future career. What do you love most about what you do?
Well, let me tell you a bit about my journey. Born and raised in San Diego, I’ve always had a passion for this city and its real estate landscape. It’s what led me into this dynamic industry in the first place, and I haven’t looked back since. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of helping countless clients navigate the ins and outs of buying and selling homes in San Diego. From first-time buyers to seasoned investors, each transaction brings its own unique set of challenges and rewards. What I love most about what I do is the opportunity to make a real difference in people’s lives. Whether it’s finding the perfect home for a growing family or helping someone secure their financial future through strategic investments, there’s nothing quite like the satisfaction of knowing I’ve played a part in making their dreams a reality. Looking ahead, I’m excited to continue serving the San Diego community and expanding my expertise even further. With each new day comes the opportunity to learn and grow, and I’m eager to see where this journey takes me next.
Q: What advice would you give to people?
Always put the client first. When it comes to real estate, research neighborhoods, trust your instincts, and lean on a seasoned agent for guidance. In San Diego’s bustling market, combining intuition with expert advice is key to success.
Q: Where do you see yourself in 5 to 10 years?
In 5 to 10 years, I envision myself continuing to thrive in the San Diego real estate market, serving my clients with integrity and expertise. I aspire to further deepen my knowledge, expand my professional network, and perhaps even take on leadership roles within my industry. Ultimately, my goal remains the same: to make a positive impact in the lives of those I serve while fostering personal and professional growth
John Selby & Our Community
Q: What are a few of your favorite restaurants in our community?
Alexandars on 30th, Shank and Bone, Cantina Mayahuel.
Q: How long have you lived or worked in our community?
I am fortunate to be a San Diego Native, establishing deep roots and a strong connection to this wonderful community. Professionally, I’ve been immersed in the local real estate scene for 11, honing my expertise and serving clients with dedication and passion
Q: Who is the most interesting person you’ve met here in our community?
One of the most intriguing individuals I’ve had the pleasure of meeting in our community is a client I worked with recently. Their unique perspective on real estate investing and their adventurous spirit made for some truly inspiring conversations. It’s encounters like these that remind me of the diversity and richness of experiences within our community.
Q: What current or former local business makes you the most nostalgic about our community?
I love all the businesses along Adams Ave! One that makes me nostalgic is DeMilli’s. I remember having lunch with my grandmother there just days before she passed away. I will always remember that.
Q: What is your favorite thing or something unique about our community?
As a native San Diegan I can tell you what truly sets us apart is our tight-knit community spirit – whether it’s rallying together for a cause or simply sharing a wave and a smile with neighbors, there’s a warmth here that’s truly special.
Q: If you could choose anyone alive today and not a relative, with whom would you love to have lunch? Why? And where locally would you meet for this lunch?
If I could pick anyone alive today for lunch, it would be Elon Musk. His visionary approach to innovation and his bold pursuits in technology fascinate me. Meeting at a local favorite, like Cantina Mayahuel with the great food and Tequila would be the perfect setting to discuss the future of electric cars.
For Fun
Q: (Even for friends or family), what is something interesting that most people don’t know about you?
I have 750 solo skydives.
Q: What would you rate a 10 out of 10?
Without a doubt, a 10 out of 10 is the feeling of coming home after a long day of work
Q: Who inspires you to be better?
My mom, I am constantly inspired by her leadership, wisdom, and unwavering commitment to our team and clients. Her guidance and mentorship drive me to continually push myself to new heights, ensuring that I uphold the standards of excellence she has established.
Q: What community organizations and/or local nonprofits do you admire/support?
One community organization that holds a special place in my heart is Feeding San Diego. They’re dedicated to fighting hunger and food insecurity across our city, providing vital support to those in need. Every year, as part of the Selby Team, we passionately rally behind their cause, organizing fundraising events to support their mission. It’s incredibly rewarding to see the impact we can make together, ensuring that no one in our community goes hungry. Feeding San Diego’s dedication to serving others aligns perfectly with our values, and we’re proud to stand alongside them in making a difference.
Q: What is the best advice you’ve ever received?
The best advice I’ve ever received is to always lead with integrity and authenticity. By staying true to myself and maintaining the highest ethical standards, I not only earn the trust of my clients but also build long-lasting relationships based on mutual respect and integrity. This advice has guided me through countless challenges and decisions, reminding me to prioritize honesty and integrity in everything I do.”
Q: What Neighborhood do you live in?
La Mesa
What I love about my Neighborhood:
What I love about my neighborhood is its vibrant energy and convenient location, offering plenty of amenities and a welcoming community vibe
Please describe your ideal San Diego weekend:
My ideal San Diego weekend involves escaping to my boat, cruising along the beautiful coastline, and enjoying some fishing or simply relaxing on the water with family and friends. It’s the perfect way to unwind and soak up the sunshine in our coastal paradise.
Q: Finally, what three words or phrases come to mind when you think of the word HOME?
Comfort, love, sanctuary.
